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Post-traumatic growth: how loss can rewire us for resilience

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Studies have linked personal growth with lower depression and higher wellbeing. | Photo: Stalin Solis

When life falls apart, the common question is how to get back to normal. The more useful question is what a new normal could look like. Post-traumatic growth describes the positive psychological changes that can follow the struggle with deeply challenging events. It is not about silver-lining pain or denying trauma. It is about the slow, uneven work of making meaning, and the ways that work can expand strength, purpose, relationships, and appreciation for life.

What post-traumatic growth actually means

Psychologists first outlined post-traumatic growth in the 1990s and later developed a widely used measure to study it across contexts such as bereavement, illness, and war. Growth is typically reported in five areas. People describe feeling stronger and more capable. They often value relationships more and feel closer to others. Many report a deeper appreciation for life’s small moments, a clearer sense of purpose, and a shift in existential perspective. These changes do not erase grief. They can coexist with it.

Surveys suggest that a majority of trauma survivors report at least one area of positive change. Estimates range from about half to more than three quarters of participants in large studies. This is not proof that trauma is good for us. It is evidence that growth is widespread and should be supported with care.

Growth does not mean the absence of distress

Many people believe that if you are growing after trauma, you should no longer feel pain. That is not true. Research shows the connection between stress symptoms and growth is complex. You can still feel deep distress and at the same time notice positive changes in yourself, especially as time goes by and you start to make sense of what happened. Growth is not the opposite of trauma, and it is not a badge of honour. It is a process that can unfold even while you are still hurting.

Why some people “bounce forward”

There is no single recipe, but several ingredients show up consistently.

– Realistic hope. Growth is more likely when people face losses squarely and still orient toward goals that are possible now. Researchers call this grounded hope. It combines a clear-eyed view of what changed with agency for what is next.

– Social support you feel. In disasters and bereavement, perceived support often matters as much as the number of helping hands. Believing that others would show up if you asked is linked to better emotional outcomes and more room for growth.

– Meaning-making and deliberate reflection. Studies suggest that moving from automatic replay of the event toward deliberate reflection about its implications is a turning point. People begin to weave the loss into their life story rather than organize their life around the loss.

– Acceptance plus action. Classic resilience work highlights three cognitive traps that keep us stuck after shocks. Personalization is the belief it was all your fault. Pervasiveness is the sense the pain will poison everything. Permanence is the fear it will feel this way forever. Naming and challenging these “three Ps” creates room for healthier interpretations and next steps.

What the data says about benefits

A large review of studies links reported growth with lower depression and higher well-being, while also noting that intrusive thoughts can still be present. In health contexts such as cancer and HIV, growth relates modestly to better psychological adjustment. These are not miracle effects, but they are reliable enough to matter for policy and practice.

There is also evidence that adversity, once emotionally processed, can heighten our ability to enjoy everyday positives. In a survey of nearly 15,000 adults, people who had overcome serious past difficulties showed stronger savouring of small pleasures than those without such histories, which in turn related to higher life satisfaction. The benefit depended on having worked through the negative event, underscoring that time and support are not optional.

How growth shows up in real lives

Public conversations about loss have made the idea more tangible. Memoirs such as Option B by Sheryl Sandberg have helped normalize anger, disorientation, and the daily labour of rebuilding. The useful contribution is not that growth is guaranteed, but that skills like self-compassion, accurate thinking, and asking for help make growth more likely.

Practical ways to support growth after loss

What helps in the clinic and in everyday life is surprisingly similar. None of this is quick. But all of it is learnable.

– Name what changed. Write for 15 minutes about how the event altered your assumptions about safety, control, fairness, or identity. Then write about what values still feel true and what roles you want to reclaim or redefine.

– Recruit your circle. Ask two people for specific kinds of support this month. One might be a practical ally for tasks you avoid when you are depleted. One might be a listening ally who can handle tears and silence.

– Work with the three Ps. When your mind says “This was my fault,” ask “What were the causes I controlled and did not control?” When it says “This ruins everything,” list three areas of life that remain intact. When it says “It will always feel like this,” recall one time the feeling eased.

– Savour on purpose. Choose one daily micro-moment to notice and extend by thirty seconds. Warm tea in your hands. Sun on your face. Birds chirping outside.

– Give what you needed. Small acts of kindness reliably boost meaning and connectedness. Share a skill, check on a neighbor, or volunteer an hour. The goal is not to erase your pain. It is to remind your nervous system you still matter.

– Awe interludes. Brief experiences of awe quiet self-focus and can reduce stress reactivity, creating a more spacious frame for grief work. Step outside to watch the sky at dusk. Put on music that moves you and listen without multitasking.

A realistic promise

Post-traumatic growth is not automatic and not owed. It is also not rare. The science now suggests that many people, with time and support, can reshape their lives in ways that reflect deeper strength, tighter bonds, and a wider sense of meaning. The task is not to be grateful for what happened. The task is to become who you can be now that it did.

I support people through grief using mindfulness, movement, and science by helping them access resilience, rebuild trust in themselves, and realise they're not as powerless as they feel.

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EU approves biggest overhaul of medicines rules in more than 20 years

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New EU pharmaceutical rules will change how medicines are protected from competition and supplied across Europe. | Photo: David Trinks

The EU has approved its biggest overhaul of pharmaceutical legislation in more than 20 years, introducing new rules covering medicine shortages, generic drugs, antibiotics and protections for pharmaceutical companies.

The Council of the EU adopted the new EU pharmaceutical rules on 28 September. The package follows an agreement reached with the European Parliament in December 2025.

It is the first major revision of EU pharmaceutical legislation since 2004. The reforms aim to improve access to medicines while encouraging companies to continue developing new treatments in Europe.

How will the new EU pharmaceutical rules affect medicines?

One major change concerns how long new medicines are protected from competition.

Drugmakers will receive eight years of regulatory data protection. During this period, competitors cannot use the original manufacturer’s clinical and pre-clinical trial data to seek approval for generic or biosimilar alternatives.

This will be followed by one year of market protection. Additional protection will be available for medicines meeting certain requirements.

The EU is also expanding the Bolar exemption. This allows generic manufacturers to carry out studies and other necessary preparations before existing protections expire.

As a result, generic medicines should be able to enter the market sooner once they are legally permitted.

The reforms also introduce incentives for medicines targeting rare diseases and antibiotic-resistant infections.

Orphan medicines for rare conditions will generally receive nine years of market exclusivity. Qualifying breakthrough treatments could receive 11 years.

Developers of certain new antibiotics could also receive a transferable voucher granting an additional year of protection to another medicine. The incentive is intended to encourage development of antibiotics as antimicrobial resistance becomes a growing public-health problem.

What will the EU do about medicine shortages?

Preventing medicine shortages is another important part of the new rules.

EU countries will be able to require pharmaceutical companies benefiting from regulatory protection to supply sufficient quantities of a medicine to meet patients’ needs.

Drugmakers will also face stronger requirements to warn authorities about potential shortages and take steps to prevent critical supply problems.

Medicine supplies have become a growing concern in Europe, particularly following the Covid-19 pandemic, which highlighted the bloc’s reliance on countries outside the EU for some medicines and pharmaceutical ingredients.

When will the new EU pharmaceutical rules take effect?

The changes are not yet in force.

The pharmaceutical package includes a new regulation and directive. Both still require formal adoption by the European Parliament.

Once formally approved, the legislation will be published in the EU’s Official Journal and take effect according to the timetable established in the final texts.

The reforms are designed to strike a balance between two competing priorities: getting affordable medicines to European patients sooner while maintaining incentives for pharmaceutical companies to develop new treatments.

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How to Take Practical Steps Toward a Healthier Lifestyle

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60% of the UK adults report struggling to maintain healthy habits. | Photo: Gustavo Fring

Living a healthier lifestyle than the one you’re currently leading takes commitment, but it doesn’t have to begin with dramatic changes. In the UK, around 60% of adults report struggling to maintain healthy habits, according to the Office for Health Improvement and Disparities (OHID), and nearly one in three say they feel overwhelmed by the idea of “starting over” with their wellbeing. The good news is that long‑term health improvements rarely come from grand gestures. Research from the British Journal of Health Psychology shows that small, repeatable micro‑habits — such as drinking more water, walking daily, or setting boundaries — are far more likely to stick and lead to meaningful change over time.

Prioritise Your Health

Your good health is the backbone of a great life. When you are sick or just feel out of sorts, you are not living your best life. Illness takes centre stage, and everything else falls to the wayside. Luckily, you can take control of your health by being proactive. Schedule a private health screening to catch up on your annual wellness check and screenings. Take this opportunity to discuss any concerns that have arisen since your last healthcare appointment and ask any questions you may have. Living well involves being well, and the best way to be well is to get a health screening. Ask your provider for more information regarding how to achieve your health goals. They are the perfect place to start.

Create and Enforce Healthy Boundaries

Boundaries sound like an efficient and effective idea. A boundary keeps some things in and other things out. And yet, the concept is so much easier to ruminate on than actually taking action on. In life, you will notice that some people push your boundaries. They want more of your time and more of you. They want access to you at all times and expect you to pick up their slack. This could play out at work, in your family of origin, in your friend group, or in your own home. Think about how you feel after interacting with people who cross the line or take advantage of you. Start small and have a conversation. Use “I statements” and explain how you feel when they do certain things. State that you will no longer be available or accept certain behaviours. Remember that no is a complete sentence, and your mental health is important.

Adopt a Growth Mindset

It is not enough to want to live a healthier lifestyle; you need to want to embrace the steps and do the work to get there. If you falter in your health goals, giving yourself grace is so important. Everyone missteps from time to time. Sometimes, it keeps happening. What matters is that you pick yourself up, refocus your intentions, and perhaps try a different approach to do the work to become a healthier version of yourself. Learning from your mistakes is part of the process. Giving up is not. Growing your mind is part of becoming healthy.

Small habits compound over time, and consistency matters more than intensity. | Photo: Gustavo Fring

Build Consistency Through Micro‑Habits

Small habits compound over time, and consistency matters more than intensity. Studies from University College London suggest it takes an average of 66 days for a new behaviour to become automatic — not perfect, not effortless, but familiar enough to stick. This is why micro‑habits are so powerful: they bypass the pressure of perfection and focus instead on repetition.

Start with actions that take less than two minutes: stretching when you wake up, drinking a glass of water before coffee, writing down one intention for the day, or stepping outside for fresh air between tasks. These tiny shifts help regulate stress, improve mood, and build momentum. Over time, they create a foundation that makes bigger lifestyle changes feel achievable rather than intimidating.

Embracing a healthier lifestyle is an ongoing process, not a single decision. Prioritise your physical and mental health, set boundaries that protect your energy, and allow yourself to learn and adapt along the way. Small, consistent actions — from daily movement to regular health screenings — create a cumulative impact that supports long‑term wellbeing. When you choose to adopt a growth mindset, you’re choosing to invest in yourself every day, building a life that feels balanced, intentional, and genuinely healthy.

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How Grief Affects Sleep Patterns and Physical Health

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Grief is not confined to the mind. | Photo: Marieke de Jong/ Slaapwijsheid

One of the first obvious physical change after a significant loss is sleep. Falling asleep is difficult and sleep overall is very disrupted. Your mind replays hospital rooms, last conversations, unanswered questions. Your chest feels tight. Your heart is alert. You are exhausted, but your body will not fully switch off.

What many people do not realise is that grief registers in the body as a threat. The attachment bond has been severed, and from a biological perspective, that loss signals danger. The nervous system shifts into fight-or-flight mode, a state designed for survival, not rest.

Sleep requires safety.
Grief feels like the opposite.

A mismatch between expectation and reality

Grief is often described as an emotional experience. But it is also physiological. It moves through the body before it ever becomes language. Adults and children alike experience this disruption. After I lost my father at the age of seven, for many months after his death, I would lie in bed each night telling myself, this is just a nightmare. I will wake up tomorrow morning and everything will be as it used to be. My mind was desperately trying to reverse reality.

Years later, after losing my brothers, the nights carried a different texture but a similar vigilance. My body felt tired beyond measure, yet my mind remained alert. Tired but wired. This is not unusual. Neuroscientist Mary-Frances O’Connor explains that the brain forms deep attachment circuits around the people we love. When someone dies, those circuits do not immediately update. On some level, the brain still expects them to exist in the world. That mismatch between expectation and reality creates a huge amount of stress. And we know that stress affects sleep.

When we experience loss, the body’s stress response system activates. Cortisol levels can rise. The autonomic nervous system shifts toward vigilance. The very systems designed to help us survive acute danger can remain partially switched on for weeks or months. Neuroscientist Andrew Huberman has described how elevated stress hormones disrupt the architecture of sleep, reducing deep and REM cycles. REM sleep, in particular, plays a role in emotional processing. When it becomes fragmented, emotional regulation during the day becomes more difficult. This creates a feedback loop.

Poor sleep intensifies emotional sensitivity.
Heightened emotion disrupts sleep further.

There is also the “body budget” to consider, a concept developed by neuroscientist Lisa Feldman Barrett. She describes how the brain continuously manages energy resources: sleep, nutrition, movement, and social connection. Grief is metabolically expensive. It draws heavily on this budget. Even when someone appears outwardly functional, their internal systems are working harder than usual. Concentration requires more effort. Decision-making feels heavier. The immune system can become temporarily compromised.

Further symptoms of grief

Many grieving people report increased colds, flares of autoimmune symptoms, digestive issues, or unexplained aches. Research supports this observation. Acute grief has been associated with elevated inflammation markers and changes in immune function. The body does not separate emotional stress from physical stress. It responds to both. Julia Samuel, a psychotherapist specialising in grief, often reminds us that bereavement is one of the most significant stressors a human can experience. If we would expect physical repercussions after a major surgery or trauma, it makes sense that profound emotional loss would also register physically. Yet culturally, we rarely prepare people for this.

We speak about sadness.
We speak about missing someone.
We do not always speak about night sweats, jaw tension, digestive changes, or the way the heart can feel as though it is racing in a quiet room.

There is even a recognised medical condition often called “broken heart syndrome” or  “stress-induced cardiomyopathy”, in which acute emotional distress temporarily affects heart function. It is rare, but it illustrates a broader truth: the heart and brain are in constant dialogue. Sleep disturbance during grief is not only about stress hormones. It is also about meaning.

Night removes distraction. During the day, routines hold us. Conversations buffer us. At night, silence expands. The absence can feel louder. The mind returns to images, regrets, conversations replayed. Grief disrupts ordinary perception, the world feels altered, unfamiliar. That disorientation does not switch off when the lights go out. The body remembers what the mind is trying to process.

For some, sleep becomes avoidance, an attempt to escape pain. For others, insomnia becomes a form of unconscious vigilance. Over time, as the brain slowly updates its attachment maps, sleep often stabilises. But this can take longer than people expect. In the early stages of grief, self-judgement around sleep can add unnecessary strain. People often say, “I should be coping better,” or “I just need to be stronger.” Yet sleep disruption after loss is not a failure of character. It reflects a nervous system recalibrating.

Small physiological supports can help, regular light exposure in the morning, gentle movement during the day, limiting late-night stimulation, maintaining consistent sleep times where possible. These are not cures for grief. They are signals of safety to the body. And safety allows rest.

Grief is not confined to the mind

There is something quietly humbling about recognising that grief is not confined to the mind. It is cellular. Hormonal. Neurological. It travels through muscle and breath. When someone says, “I am exhausted,” after months of mourning, it is often literal. The body has been carrying the weight. With time, and with patient regulation, the nervous system learns that the immediate threat has passed. Cortisol rhythms rebalance. REM sleep lengthens again. The immune system steadies. The body budget slowly recovers.

Grief does not vanish. But its physiological intensity often softens. Understanding this can reduce secondary suffering, the anxiety about why the body feels different. When we frame sleep disturbance and physical symptoms as adaptive responses rather than defects, something eases. Your body is not betraying you. It is responding to love, loss, and the effort of adaptation.

And in that response, even the sleepless nights carry a kind of logic, it is your system learning, slowly, how to live in a world that has changed forever.

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